I can't say, but I think it is driver dependent.
This driver is made for desktops, with all sorts of features like AP mode. Like it is suggested in that issue, someone needs to make a stripped version with only client support.
The latest generation boxes have this on board:
Bus 001 Device 004: ID 0bda:c82c Realtek Semiconductor Corp. 802.11ac NIC
which according to my AP is connected using Wifi 5, 800Mbps. And this works fine, but its driver is also a rediculous size:
Module Size Used by 88x2cu 2917383 0 cfg80211 436188 1 88x2cu
but appearently it doesn't claim this much virtual memory at startup.
Maybe you can fool it by creating a large swap file, if you have reasonably fast local storage available?
Or if all else fails. you could always go for a wireless bridge, and connect it to the ethernet port?